{"id":103,"date":"2016-03-30T19:11:03","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T17:11:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/?p=103"},"modified":"2016-03-30T20:20:34","modified_gmt":"2016-03-30T18:20:34","slug":"najlepsim-vzorom-su-rodicia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/najlepsim-vzorom-su-rodicia\/","title":{"rendered":"Najlep\u0161\u00edm vzorom s\u00fa rodi\u010dia"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>S\u00a0man\u017eelom m\u00e1me dve deti, o\u00a0ktor\u00e9 sa star\u00e1m v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu \u010dasu ja, lebo m\u00f4\u017e mu\u017e je pracovne vy\u0165a\u017een\u00fd. Ke\u010f v\u0161ak u\u017e s\u00a0nimi je, v\u017edy im spln\u00ed, \u010do im vid\u00ed na o\u010diach, ni\u010d im nezakazuje, je na ne ako med. Ja som potom v\u017edy t\u00e1 zl\u00e1, ke\u010f chcem zachova\u0165 nejak\u00fa discipl\u00ednu, poriadok a\u00a0aj zmysel det\u00ed pre to, \u017ee si nem\u00f4\u017eme dovoli\u0165 v\u0161etko a\u00a0\u017ee v\u0161etko dobr\u00e9 nie\u010do stoj\u00ed. Man\u017eel moju celot\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ov\u00fa n\u00e1mahu zni\u010d\u00ed behom hodiny a\u00a0deti sa u\u017e na m\u0148a pozeraj\u00fa ako na nejak\u00e9ho bachara. \u010co s\u00a0t\u00fdm m\u00e1m robi\u0165? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Katar\u00edna M., Bratislava<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-80 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/naj-vzorom-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"najlepsim-vzorom\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/naj-vzorom-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/naj-vzorom.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Mil\u00e1 Katar\u00edna, v\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m je pomerne \u010dast\u00fd, ur\u010dite ho poznaj\u00fa mnoh\u00e9 mami\u010dky, ktor\u00e9 sa rozhodli venova\u0165 svojim de\u0165om l\u00e1sku, \u010das a\u00a0aj v\u00fdchodn\u00e9 vedenie.<\/p>\n<p>Sk\u00fasme sa na to pozrie\u0165 z\u00a0viacer\u00fdch poh\u013eadov. V\u00e1s tr\u00e1pi, \u017ee napriek mno\u017estvu \u010dasu, energie a\u00a0trpezlivosti, ktor\u00e9 venujete v\u00fdchove va\u0161ich det\u00ed, s\u00fa v\u00fdsledky va\u0161ej n\u00e1mahy pomerne krehk\u00e9. Raz za \u010das pr\u00edde na sc\u00e9nu otec a\u00a0zd\u00e1 sa v\u00e1m, \u017ee v\u0161etko, \u010do platilo, u\u017e neplat\u00ed, \u017ee hodnoty sa str\u00e1caj\u00fa a\u00a0deti m\u00f4\u017eu robi\u0165, \u010do chc\u00fa. Odmenou za va\u0161u pr\u00e1cu s\u00fa v\u00e1m pocity hnevu na man\u017eela, \u017ee v\u00e1m kaz\u00ed vybudovan\u00e9 dielo, za ktor\u00e9 v\u00e1m patr\u00ed obdiv. Z\u00a0man\u017eelovho poh\u013eadu to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 tak, \u017ee svoju energiu a\u00a0snahu venuje pr\u00e1ci, aby zabezpe\u010dil rodinu. Za \u010do mu tie\u017e patr\u00ed obdiv. Po vynalo\u017een\u00ed energie v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci sa te\u0161\u00ed domov a\u00a0chce si s\u00a0de\u0165mi u\u017ei\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00e9 chv\u00edle. Vy venujete energiu de\u0165om, man\u017eel pr\u00e1ci. On pr\u00edde domov a\u00a0te\u0161\u00ed sa, \u017ee m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 s\u00a0de\u0165mi a\u00a0nechce sa zaobera\u0165 pravidlami, hodnotami, v\u00fdchovou. To je mo\u017eno aj nie\u010do, \u010do vy sama nedok\u00e1\u017eete a\u00a0vy\u010d\u00edtate jemu. M\u00e1te popri pr\u00e1ci na pravidl\u00e1ch a\u00a0hodnot\u00e1ch det\u00ed \u010das sa a\u00a0nimi len tak pote\u0161i\u0165, zabavi\u0165 bez pravidiel? Viete sa nimi uvo\u013eni\u0165? Ak v\u00e1m t\u00e1to schopnos\u0165 ch\u00fdba, je ot\u00e1zkou \u010dasu, kedy v\u00e1s deti bud\u00fa naozaj pova\u017eova\u0165 za bachara.<\/p>\n<p>Ak sa na situ\u00e1ciu pozrieme z\u00a0poh\u013eadu det\u00ed, je prirodzen\u00e9, \u017ee sa te\u0161ia na otca, s\u00a0ktor\u00fdm pr\u00edde aj uvo\u013enenie zo zabehan\u00e9ho stereotypu. \u010co neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by v\u00a0tom momente zabudli na v\u0161etko \u010do ste ich nau\u010dili Ale pr\u00e1ve pre ten moment si dovolia uvo\u013eni\u0165 a\u00a0robi\u0165 veci inak, ako ich u\u010d\u00edte a\u00a0ako chcete, aby ich robili.<\/p>\n<p>By\u0165 rodi\u010dmi a\u00a0vychov\u00e1va\u0165 deti, vies\u0165 ich k\u00a0ur\u010dit\u00fdm hodnot\u00e1m, n\u00e1zorom a\u00a0postojom je, popri zabezpe\u010den\u00ed chodu dom\u00e1cnosti a\u00a0finan\u010dnej situ\u00e1cie, n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 \u00faloha pre oboch rodi\u010dov. A\u00a0obaja rodi\u010dia v\u00a0nej zastupuj\u00fa svoju vlastn\u00fa a\u00a0vz\u00e1jomne odli\u0161n\u00fa rolu.<\/p>\n<p>Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 vedie\u0165, \u017ee obe roly, aj ke\u010f na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead odli\u0161n\u00e9, s\u00fa pre deti pr\u00ednosom. Vy ich vediete k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee s\u00fa ist\u00e9 pravidl\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 treba dodr\u017eiava\u0165. Man\u017eel im ukazuje, \u017ee po n\u00e1rodnej pr\u00e1ci prich\u00e1dza oddych a\u00a0z\u00e1bava, uvo\u013enenie. Deti sa t\u00fdm u\u010dia, \u017ee svet otcov je in\u00fd, ako svet matiek, rovnako ako sa svet mu\u017eov l\u00ed\u0161i od sveta \u017eien a\u00a0v\u00a0ka\u017edom platia trocha in\u00e9 pravidl\u00e1. Je d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby si pravidl\u00e1 t\u00fdchto dvoch svetov vz\u00e1jomne neodporovali.<\/p>\n<p>Ak m\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee s\u00a0man\u017eelom vediete deti k\u00a0odli\u0161n\u00fdm hodnot\u00e1m a\u00a0postojom, bolo by fajn sa o\u00a0tom porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 a\u00a0ujasni\u0165 si to. Ak zist\u00edte, \u017ee obaja vediete deti rovnak\u00fdm smerom, ale ka\u017ed\u00fd svoj\u00edm vlastn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom, bolo by fajn to akceptova\u0165. Tu v\u00e1m mo\u017eno pom\u00f4\u017ee si uvedomi\u0165, \u017ee nie iba v\u00e1\u0161 sp\u00f4sob vedenia v\u00fdchovy je ten spr\u00e1vny. A\u00a0\u017ee pre deti je pr\u00ednosom pr\u00e1ve va\u0161a akcept\u00e1cia aj in\u00e9ho sp\u00f4sobu vedenia, in\u00e9ho sp\u00f4sobu tr\u00e1venia spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu, mo\u017eno ob\u010das aj trochu bez zv\u00e4zuj\u00facich pravidiel. Pri de\u0165och, viac ako inde, plat\u00ed, \u017ee sa najlep\u0161ie u\u010dia pr\u00edkladom od rodi\u010dov. Bu\u010fte si preto ist\u00e1, \u017ee hodnoty, ku ktor\u00fdm ich svoj\u00edm pr\u00edkladom budete vies\u0165, len tak \u013eahko nevymizn\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00a0man\u017eelom m\u00e1me dve deti, o\u00a0ktor\u00e9 sa star\u00e1m v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu \u010dasu ja, lebo m\u00f4\u017e mu\u017e je pracovne vy\u0165a\u017een\u00fd. Ke\u010f v\u0161ak u\u017e s\u00a0nimi je, v\u017edy im spln\u00ed, \u010do im vid\u00ed na o\u010diach, ni\u010d im nezakazuje, je na ne ako med. Ja som potom v\u017edy t\u00e1 zl\u00e1, ke\u010f chcem zachova\u0165 nejak\u00fa discipl\u00ednu, poriadok a\u00a0aj zmysel det\u00ed pre to, \u017ee [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":80,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Najlep\u0161\u00edm vzorom s\u00fa rodi\u010dia - Mgr. 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