{"id":67,"date":"2016-03-30T16:14:00","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T14:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/?p=67"},"modified":"2018-06-01T23:16:22","modified_gmt":"2018-06-01T21:16:22","slug":"bez-nasilia-vo-vztahu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/bez-nasilia-vo-vztahu\/","title":{"rendered":"Bez n\u00e1silia vo vz\u0165ahu"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Za posledn\u00fdch p\u00e4\u0165 rokov m\u00e1m tret\u00ed v\u00e1\u017enej\u0161\u00ed vz\u0165ah, no zase je to o tom istom. M\u00f4j priate\u013e je ve\u013ek\u00fd fe\u0161\u00e1k a navonok naozaj mil\u00fd a slu\u0161n\u00fd (preto sa mi aj zap\u00e1\u010dil), no na mne vid\u00ed st\u00e1le viac ch\u00fdb, ktor\u00e9 mi vy\u010d\u00edta, poni\u017euje ma pred na\u0161imi spolo\u010dn\u00fdmi priate\u013emi no ke\u010f sa pok\u00fasim br\u00e1ni\u0165, najnov\u0161ie za\u010d\u00edna by\u0165 u\u017e aj hrub\u00fd. Minule som od neho dokonca dostala prv\u00fa facku. M\u00e1m ho v\u0161ak st\u00e1le rada a nechcem o\u0148ho pr\u00eds\u0165. Mama mi vy\u010d\u00edta \u017ee si za to v\u0161etko m\u00f4\u017eem sama. U\u017e ver\u00edm tomu, \u017ee chyba je vo mne &#8211; ako ju ale m\u00f4\u017eem odstr\u00e1ni\u0165 ? Andrea V., Malacky<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-75 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vztah-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"vztah\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vztah-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vztah.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Mil\u00e1 Andrea, na \u00favod mi dovo\u013ete pomenova\u0165 veci tak, ako s\u00fa. V\u00e1\u0161 priate\u013e je fe\u0161\u00e1k navonok mil\u00fd, V\u00e1s v\u0161ak pred \u013eu\u010fmi poni\u017euje, u\u017e V\u00e1s aj prv\u00fd kr\u00e1t udrel. No m\u00f4\u017eete za to vy a dokonca ho za to m\u00e1te aj rada.<\/p>\n<p>Akoby na tejto situ\u00e1cii nie\u010do nehralo. Bu\u010f jeho spr\u00e1vanie pova\u017eujete za atrakt\u00edvne (na \u010dom by nebolo ni\u010d zl\u00e9) alebo n\u00edm naopak trp\u00edte, boj\u00edte sa \u010doko\u013evek poveda\u0165, lebo v tom pr\u00edpade by z jeho strany nasledovalo n\u00e1silie a vinu za jeho spr\u00e1vanie beriete na seba. To, \u010do vn\u00edmate ako l\u00e1sku, sa zd\u00e1 by\u0165 nebezpe\u010dnou situ\u00e1ciou, najm\u00e4 pre V\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p>Obete partnersk\u00e9ho n\u00e1silia sa spr\u00e1vaj\u00fa zv\u00e4\u010d\u0161a podobn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom ako vy. Opakovane si vyberaj\u00fa navonok mil\u00fdch v s\u00fakrom\u00ed &#8222;siln\u00fdch&#8220; partnerov, ktor\u00ed sa ne\u0161t\u00edtia pou\u017ei\u0165 n\u00e1silie vo\u010di \u017eene. Navonok prejavovan\u00fd mil\u00fd a slu\u0161n\u00fd imid\u017e tak\u00fdchto partnerov im hr\u00e1 do kar\u00e1t. Kto by na nich povedal nie\u010do zl\u00e9, kto by ich \u010do i len upodozrieval z nie\u010doho nekal\u00e9ho, ke\u010f oni s\u00fa, aspo\u0148 naoko, tak\u00ed mil\u00ed? V \u017eene sa t\u00fdmto buduje pocit viny, \u017ee ona sama m\u00f4\u017ee za partnerove spr\u00e1vanie, \u017ee ho vyprovokovala, najm\u00e4 ak v nej tento pocit potvrdzuje aj jej najbli\u017e\u0161ie okolie, tak ako je to vo va\u0161om pr\u00edpade zo strany va\u0161ej mamy.<\/p>\n<p>V tak\u00fdchto vz\u0165ahoch plat\u00ed, \u017ee ak je mu\u017e schopn\u00fd pou\u017ei\u0165 vo\u010di \u017eene n\u00e1silie \u010do i len jedenkr\u00e1t, bude ho ako n\u00e1stroj pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 aj nesk\u00f4r, v st\u00e1le sa stup\u0148uj\u00facej intenzite. In\u00fdmi slovami, to \u010do za\u010dne jednou fackou m\u00f4\u017ee skon\u010di\u0165 bitkou a in\u00fdmi formami hrub\u00e9ho n\u00e1silia. A n\u00e1silie do \u017eiadneho zdrav\u00e9ho partnersk\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu v\u00f4bec nepatr\u00ed!<\/p>\n<p>Pre V\u00e1s m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 pr\u00e1ve to, \u017ee partnerovi tak\u00e9to spr\u00e1vanie tolerujete a m\u00e1te ho aj napriek tomu rada a nechcete o neho pr\u00eds\u0165. Preto by ste si mali najprv ujasni\u0165, o \u010do pri svojom partnerovi stoj\u00edte. Preto\u017ee on nie je iba ten mil\u00fd p\u00e1n, ktor\u00e9ho by ste chceli ma\u0165 rada, ale aj \u010dlovek ktor\u00fd V\u00e1s poni\u017euje. Ak V\u00e1m tak\u00e9to jeho spr\u00e1vanie neubli\u017euje a dokonca ho vn\u00edmate ako l\u00e1sku, asi na tom nie\u010do nie je v poriadku.<\/p>\n<p>\u010co V\u00e1s vedie k tomu, \u017ee v mene l\u00e1sky vn\u00edmate aj n\u00e1siln\u00e9ho a hrub\u00e9ho partnera ako \u010dloveka, s ktor\u00fdm chcete by\u0165? Mo\u017eno by V\u00e1m mohlo pom\u00f4c\u0165 pozrie\u0165 sa na situ\u00e1ciu zhora. Predstavte si, \u017ee by V\u00e1m takto opisovala svoj vz\u0165ah Va\u0161a kamar\u00e1tka. \u010co by ste jej povedali?<\/p>\n<p>Ak si aj tak mysl\u00edte, \u017ee m\u00e1te partnera rada a chcete s n\u00edm by\u0165 neh\u013eadiac na jeho n\u00e1siln\u00e9 sklony \u017eiadna rada by V\u00e1s o opaku asi nepresved\u010dila. Za predpokladu, \u017ee ako svoju chybu vn\u00edmate pr\u00e1ve v\u00fdber tak\u00fdchto partnerov a neviete pre\u010do a neviete to zmeni\u0165, odpor\u00fa\u010dala by som konzult\u00e1ciu so psychol\u00f3gom. Ten by v\u00e1m mohol pom\u00f4c\u0165 porozumie\u0165, pre\u010do sa dost\u00e1vate do st\u00e1le rovnak\u00fdch vz\u0165ahov, pln\u00fdch poni\u017eovania a n\u00e1silia a pomohol by V\u00e1m budova\u0165 si zdrav\u00e9 a vyv\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy zalo\u017een\u00e9 na vz\u00e1jomnom porozumen\u00ed, re\u0161pekte a tak isto aj na podpore.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Za posledn\u00fdch p\u00e4\u0165 rokov m\u00e1m tret\u00ed v\u00e1\u017enej\u0161\u00ed vz\u0165ah, no zase je to o tom istom. M\u00f4j priate\u013e je ve\u013ek\u00fd fe\u0161\u00e1k a navonok naozaj mil\u00fd a slu\u0161n\u00fd (preto sa mi aj zap\u00e1\u010dil), no na mne vid\u00ed st\u00e1le viac ch\u00fdb, ktor\u00e9 mi vy\u010d\u00edta, poni\u017euje ma pred na\u0161imi spolo\u010dn\u00fdmi priate\u013emi no ke\u010f sa pok\u00fasim br\u00e1ni\u0165, najnov\u0161ie za\u010d\u00edna by\u0165 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Bez n\u00e1silia vo vz\u0165ahu - Mgr. 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