{"id":89,"date":"2016-03-30T19:04:21","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T17:04:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/?p=89"},"modified":"2016-03-30T20:22:13","modified_gmt":"2016-03-30T18:22:13","slug":"nie-uplne-dokonaly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/nie-uplne-dokonaly\/","title":{"rendered":"Nie \u00faplne dokonal\u00fd"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>Pros\u00edm o\u00a0radu. M\u00e1m 29 rokov a\u00a0probl\u00e9m rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa. T\u00fdka sa to jedn\u00e9ho mu\u017ea. Je o\u00a0trochu star\u0161\u00ed odo m\u0148a. Je chor\u00fd, postihnut\u00fd, tak ako ja, m\u00e1 tu ist\u00fa diagn\u00f3zu. Pozn\u00e1me sa z\u00a0nemocnice. Nie je ve\u013emi pekn\u00fd, ale je ku mne dobr\u00fd. Je n\u00e1m spolu dobre, chce,\u00a0 aby sme boli spolu \u010dastej\u0161ie. M\u00e1me sa aj radi, t\u00fa\u017eime po v\u0161etkom peknom. U\u00a0neho je to zlo\u017eit\u00e9, m\u00e1 \u0165a\u017eko postihnut\u00e9ho otca aj brata. T\u00fa\u017eim s\u00a0n\u00edm by\u0165, ale je to pod\u013ea v\u00e1s spr\u00e1vne? Ke\u010f\u017ee je chor\u00fd, situ\u00e1cia v\u00a0rodine&#8230; T\u00fa\u017eime po peknom vz\u0165ahu, ale m\u00e1me osta\u0165 len kamar\u00e1ti? Je lep\u0161ie neby\u0165 spolu, zabudn\u00fa\u0165 na to? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Silvia z\u00a0Ko\u0161\u00edc <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-82 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/nie-uplne-dokonaly-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"nie-uplne-dokonaly\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/nie-uplne-dokonaly-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/nie-uplne-dokonaly.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Mil\u00e1 Silvia, z\u00a0v\u00e1\u0161ho listu vn\u00edmam naliehavos\u0165 v\u00e1\u0161ho probl\u00e9mu aj t\u00fa\u017ebu ho nejako rie\u0161i\u0165. P\u00ed\u0161ete v\u0161ak viac o\u00a0tom, \u010do je pekn\u00e9, ako o\u00a0tom, \u010do je probl\u00e9m. Ako tr\u00e1penie u v\u00e1s vn\u00edmam to, \u017ee sa neviete rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, \u010di m\u00e1te osta\u0165 na\u010falej v\u00a0partnerskom zv\u00e4zku s\u00a0priate\u013eom, s\u00a0ktor\u00fdm v\u00e1m je dobre. Pr\u00edpadne sa objavuj\u00fa pochybnosti o\u00a0spr\u00e1vnosti kroku osta\u0165 aj na\u010falej s\u00a0n\u00edm. Neviem odkia\u013e tieto pochybnosti pramenia, domnievam sa v\u0161ak, \u017ee to m\u00e1 nie\u010do spolo\u010dn\u00e9 s\u00a0postihnut\u00edm v\u00e1\u0161ho priate\u013ea. \u0160koda len, \u017ee ste nenap\u00edsali, o\u00a0ak\u00e9 postihnutie ide a\u00a0ako to ovplyv\u0148uje jeho a aj v\u00e1\u0161 spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/p>\n<p>Vo v\u0161eobecnosti ale plat\u00ed, a\u00a0to m\u00e1me dan\u00e9 na\u0161imi predkami, \u017ee biologick\u00fd druh, a\u00a0tam patr\u00edme aj my \u013eudia, m\u00e1 tendenciu si vybera\u0165 biologicky siln\u00fdch partnerov. \u010clovek sa v\u0161ak od ostatn\u00fdch druhov l\u00ed\u0161i t\u00fdm, \u017ee jeho v\u00fdber partnera nie je tak\u00fd jednoduch\u00fd a\u00a0zasahuj\u00fa do neho aj in\u00e9 aspekty, ako len sila jeho g\u00e9nov. Od toho, ako n\u00e1m partner vonia, ako sa c\u00edtime, ke\u010f sme s\u00a0n\u00edm, cez spolo\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1ujmy, \u017eivotn\u00e9 ceste a\u00a0sk\u00fasenosti, a\u017e po tie menej pr\u00edjemn\u00e9 s\u00fa\u010dasti, ktor\u00fdmi s\u00fa zdravotn\u00e9 obmedzenia \u2013 vlastn\u00e9 aj toho druh\u00e9ho. D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdm vplyvom vo formovan\u00ed vz\u0165ahu je aj poh\u013ead okolia na l\u00e1sku dvoch, hoci rovnako zdravotne postihnut\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed. Akoby v\u010faka svojmu postihnutiu nemali n\u00e1rok na l\u00e1sku, akoby to bolo zak\u00e1zan\u00e9, nepekn\u00e9. Akoby len to, \u010do je pekn\u00e9, st\u00e1lo za to, aby bolo milovan\u00e9. Tak\u00fdto postoj mo\u017eno vidie\u0165 aj vo vz\u0165ahu rodi\u010dov ku svojim de\u0165om. Pokia\u013e s\u00fa deti pod\u013ea predst\u00e1v rodi\u010dov, maj\u00fa ich radi. Nebodaj, ak sa vyskytne z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e9 ochorenie, fyzick\u00e9 alebo psychick\u00e9, pr\u00edpadne nejak\u00fd telesn\u00fd defekt, die\u0165a je rodi\u010dmi odmietan\u00e9, nenap\u013a\u0148a ich predstavy. Takto odmietan\u00e9 die\u0165a potom samo nevie prija\u0165 svoje zdravotn\u00e9 obmedzenie ani zdravotn\u00e9 limity druh\u00fdch. \u010clovek si \u010dasto tak\u00fdto poh\u013ead neuvedomuje, m\u00f4\u017ee sa ale prejavi\u0165 t\u00fdm, \u017ee m\u00e1 pochybnosti o\u00a0tom, \u010di je vz\u0165ah s\u00a0postihnut\u00fdm partnerom spr\u00e1vny, \u010di m\u00e1 v\u00fdznam a\u00a0bud\u00facnos\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>Z\u00a0va\u0161ich vyjadren\u00ed je ale jasn\u00e9, \u017ee l\u00e1ska nepozn\u00e1 hranice a\u00a0nie je limitovan\u00e1 zdrav\u00edm alebo chorobou partnerov. P\u00ed\u0161ete ve\u013ea o\u00a0tom, \u010do m\u00e1te spolo\u010dn\u00e9, ako t\u00fa\u017eite by\u0165 spolu a\u00a0pre\u017e\u00edva\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00e9 chv\u00edle. Viac v\u0161ak p\u00ed\u0161ete o\u00a0tom, ak\u00fd je v\u00e1\u0161 priate\u013e a\u00a0m\u00e1lo o\u00a0tom, ak\u00e1 ste vy, \u010do by ste vy sama chceli.<\/p>\n<p>Pre rie\u0161enie va\u0161ich pochybnost\u00ed o\u00a0spr\u00e1vnosti vz\u0165ahu by v\u00e1m mohlo pom\u00f4c\u0165 porozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, \u010do je pre v\u00e1s d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, pre\u010do chcete s\u00a0partnerom by\u0165 a\u00a0pre\u010do naopak nie, \u010do s\u00fa pre v\u00e1s plusy a\u00a0m\u00ednusy tak\u00e9hoto partnerstva, ak\u00e9 obmedzenia pre v\u00e1s predstavuj\u00fa jeho zdravotn\u00e9 limity a\u00a0pre\u010do vlastne o\u00a0\u0148om pochybujete. T\u00fdm, \u017ee budete vedie\u0165 viac o\u00a0sebe a\u00a0svojich pocitoch vo vz\u0165ahu, ako aj o\u00a0vplyve zdravotn\u00e9ho postihnutia na vz\u00e1jomn\u00fd vz\u0165ah, budete schopn\u00e1 sa rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, \u010di s\u00a0partnerom chcete osta\u0165 alebo nie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pros\u00edm o\u00a0radu. M\u00e1m 29 rokov a\u00a0probl\u00e9m rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa. T\u00fdka sa to jedn\u00e9ho mu\u017ea. Je o\u00a0trochu star\u0161\u00ed odo m\u0148a. Je chor\u00fd, postihnut\u00fd, tak ako ja, m\u00e1 tu ist\u00fa diagn\u00f3zu. Pozn\u00e1me sa z\u00a0nemocnice. Nie je ve\u013emi pekn\u00fd, ale je ku mne dobr\u00fd. Je n\u00e1m spolu dobre, chce,\u00a0 aby sme boli spolu \u010dastej\u0161ie. M\u00e1me sa aj radi, t\u00fa\u017eime [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":82,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Nie \u00faplne dokonal\u00fd - Mgr. Zuzana Navr\u00e1tilov\u00e1 PhD.<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/nie-uplne-dokonaly\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"sk_SK\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Nie \u00faplne dokonal\u00fd - Mgr. 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