{"id":95,"date":"2016-03-30T19:07:46","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T17:07:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/?p=95"},"modified":"2016-03-30T20:21:39","modified_gmt":"2016-03-30T18:21:39","slug":"pravo-ist-svojou-cestou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/pravo-ist-svojou-cestou\/","title":{"rendered":"Pr\u00e1vo \u00eds\u0165 svojou cestou"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>Dobr\u00fd de\u0148, chcem v\u00e1s poprosi\u0165 o\u00a0radu. Na\u0161a rodina je u\u017e nieko\u013eko gener\u00e1ci\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eensky zalo\u017een\u00e1, chod\u00edme pravidelne do kostola, dr\u017e\u00edme p\u00f4st, sv\u00e4t\u00edme v\u0161etky sviatky a\u00a0podobne. N\u00e1\u0161 najstar\u0161\u00ed syn sa v\u0161ak vybral \u00faplne in\u00fdm smerom a\u00a0vyvrcholilo to t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa odmietol \u017eeni\u0165 v\u00a0kostole. Je to pre zavrhnutie v\u0161etk\u00e9ho tradi\u010dn\u00e9ho a\u00a0dobr\u00e9ho v\u00a0na\u0161ej rodine a\u00a0na svadbu som preto ne\u0161la. Odvtedy (je to u\u017e rok) nie sme v\u00a0kontakte. Povedzte, ako ho vr\u00e1ti\u0165 do star\u00fdch ko\u013eaj\u00ed? Alebo som niekde vo v\u00fdchove spravila chybu? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Marta M., Brezno<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-86 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/svojou-cestou-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"svoja-cesta\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/svojou-cestou-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/svojou-cestou.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Mil\u00e1 Marta, va\u0161u ot\u00e1zku by som postavila ako ot\u00e1zku hodn\u00f4t, najm\u00e4 rodinn\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t a\u00a0trad\u00edci\u00ed. T\u00e9ma rodinn\u00fdch trad\u00edci\u00ed je v\u017edy ve\u013emi zauj\u00edmav\u00e1 a\u00a0\u0161irok\u00e1 a\u00a0v\u00a0mnoh\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch ma naozaj dlh\u00fa ni\u0165. V\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch sa oby\u010dajne traduj\u00fa zvyky, n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 vyznania, hodnotov\u00e9 orient\u00e1cie, politick\u00e9 n\u00e1zory, vz\u0165ahov\u00e9 vzorce a\u00a0pod.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fahlas\u00edm s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee dodr\u017eiavanie n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdch zvyklost\u00ed je vo va\u0161ej rodine trad\u00edciou, tak ako p\u00ed\u0161ete, a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 vn\u00edmam, \u017ee pre v\u00e1s osobne je to ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9. Prirodzene ste ako die\u0165a dostali n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fa orient\u00e1ciu ako hodnotu do vienka od svojich rodi\u010dov a\u00a0sna\u017eili ste sa ju odovzda\u0165 \u010falej svojim de\u0165om. V\u00a0tomto si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ste nikde vo v\u00fdchove neurobili chybu.<\/p>\n<p>Je v\u0161ak d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 si uvedomi\u0165 a\u00a0odl\u00ed\u0161i\u0165, \u017ee n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 orient\u00e1cie a\u00a0trad\u00edcie nie s\u00fa z\u010faleka jedin\u00e9, ktor\u00e9 vytv\u00e1raj\u00fa rodinn\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru a\u00a0rodinn\u00fa hodnotu. Je to len ur\u010dit\u00fd v\u00fdrez zo v\u0161etk\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t, ktor\u00e9 rodina vytv\u00e1ra a\u00a0odovzd\u00e1va svojim potomkom. Je preto ve\u013emi rizikov\u00e9 vn\u00edma\u0165 n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 hodnoty ako jedin\u00e9 a\u00a0stoto\u017e\u0148ova\u0165 ich s\u00a0cel\u00fdm poslan\u00edm rodiny. Potom sa v\u00e1m m\u00f4\u017ee naozaj zda\u0165, \u017ee ak jeden \u010dlen rodiny tieto hodnoty odmietne, akoby odmietol cel\u00fa rodinu a\u00a0akoby tam u\u017e neboli in\u00e9 hodnoty, ktor\u00e9 by st\u00e1li za ocenenie. Tak\u00fdto \u010dlen rodiny sa potom st\u00e1va akousi \u010diernou ovcou. V\u00e1\u0161 syn sa rozhodol nepokra\u010dova\u0165 v\u00a0rodinnej trad\u00edcii, \u010do sa t\u00fdka vyzn\u00e1vania n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdch hodn\u00f4t. Je to jeho samostatn\u00e9, dospel\u00e9 rozhodnutie, pod\u013ea vlastn\u00e9ho vedomia a\u00a0svedomia, na ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1 pln\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo. Je preto d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 re\u0161pektova\u0165, \u017ee aj napriek tomu, \u017ee ste spravili v\u0161etko pre to, aby ste odovzdali svojim potomkom to, \u010do vy vn\u00edmate ako dobr\u00e9 a\u00a0hodnotn\u00e9, sa ka\u017ed\u00fd potomok s\u00e1m rozhoduje, \u010di tento dar od rodi\u010dov prijme, alebo ho neprijme.<\/p>\n<p>Mo\u017eno by v\u00e1m pomohlo vn\u00edma\u0165 situ\u00e1ciu tak, \u017ee ste robili v\u0161etko pre to, aby ste synovi pon\u00fakli ur\u010dit\u00fd rodinn\u00fd dar, klenot, a\u00a0ten sa ako dospel\u00fd \u010dlovek rozhodol tento dar neprija\u0165. Vy sa z\u00a0toho m\u00f4\u017eete c\u00edti\u0165 smutn\u00e1, roz\u010darovan\u00e1, mo\u017eno aj zranen\u00e1 a\u00a0nahnevan\u00e1. Ur\u010dite v\u0161ak syn neodmietol v\u0161etko, \u010do ste v\u00a0rodine budovali, \u010do ste mu dali, \u010do ste do neho investovali, len vyjadril svoj postoj k\u00a0n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdm hodnot\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 ste sa mu sna\u017eili v\u0161tepi\u0165. A\u00a0to nie je ot\u00e1zka dobra a\u00a0zla, alebo toho, \u010di ste spravili niekde chybu. Samostatn\u00e9 rozhodnutia va\u0161ich det\u00ed s\u00fa va\u0161ou v\u00fdhrou a\u00a0nie chybou. Preto by som ani to, \u017ee sa syn rozhodol nevyzn\u00e1va\u0165 n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 hodnoty, nevn\u00edmala ako zlyhanie, \u010di u\u017e va\u0161e alebo jeho.<\/p>\n<p>Bolo by v\u0161ak naivn\u00e9 a\u00a0trochu aj n\u00e1siln\u00e9 sna\u017ei\u0165 sa teraz dosta\u0165 syna do va\u0161ich vyjazden\u00fdch ko\u013eaj\u00ed, ke\u010f on si vybral \u00eds\u0165 po in\u00fdch, svojich vlastn\u00fdch. Preto sa teraz vy m\u00f4\u017eete rozhodn\u00fa\u0165, \u010di to budete re\u0161pektova\u0165, a\u00a0ver\u00edm tomu, \u017ee aj vz\u00e1jomn\u00e1 komunik\u00e1cia sa t\u00fdm zlep\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dobr\u00fd de\u0148, chcem v\u00e1s poprosi\u0165 o\u00a0radu. Na\u0161a rodina je u\u017e nieko\u013eko gener\u00e1ci\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eensky zalo\u017een\u00e1, chod\u00edme pravidelne do kostola, dr\u017e\u00edme p\u00f4st, sv\u00e4t\u00edme v\u0161etky sviatky a\u00a0podobne. N\u00e1\u0161 najstar\u0161\u00ed syn sa v\u0161ak vybral \u00faplne in\u00fdm smerom a\u00a0vyvrcholilo to t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa odmietol \u017eeni\u0165 v\u00a0kostole. Je to pre zavrhnutie v\u0161etk\u00e9ho tradi\u010dn\u00e9ho a\u00a0dobr\u00e9ho v\u00a0na\u0161ej rodine a\u00a0na svadbu som preto ne\u0161la. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":86,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Pr\u00e1vo \u00eds\u0165 svojou cestou - Mgr. 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