{"id":97,"date":"2016-03-30T19:08:51","date_gmt":"2016-03-30T17:08:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/?p=97"},"modified":"2016-03-30T20:21:28","modified_gmt":"2016-03-30T18:21:28","slug":"vsetko-podla-neho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/index.php\/2016\/03\/30\/vsetko-podla-neho\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u0161etko je len pod\u013ea neho"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>Toto leto p\u00f4jdeme zase na hory, tak ako to chce m\u00f4j man\u017eel. Za 20 rokov, \u010do sme spolu, sa dovolenky aj v\u0161etko ostatn\u00e9 pl\u00e1nuje pod\u013ea neho. Hovor\u00ed, \u017ee bude pod\u013ea neho, lebo nos\u00ed domov peniaze a\u00a0u\u00a0n\u00e1s je aj tak lep\u0161ie a\u00a0lacnej\u0161ie ako niekde pri mori. Cel\u00fd \u017eivot pritom sn\u00edvam o\u00a0mori. M\u00e1m sto chut\u00ed s\u00a0cel\u00fdm man\u017eelstvom sekn\u00fa\u0165 a\u00a0zmizn\u00fa\u0165 na koniec sveta. Neviem, ako \u010falej, viem, \u017ee s\u00a0n\u00edm nepohnem&#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Svetlana Z., Bratislava <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-87 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bratislavapsycholog.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vsetko-podla-neho-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"vsetko-podla-neho\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vsetko-podla-neho-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/psychologickabratislava.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/vsetko-podla-neho.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Mil\u00e1 Svetlana, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m je pomerne aktu\u00e1lny a\u00a0be\u017en\u00fd vo viacer\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fa mu\u017ei, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa patriarch\u00e1lne zalo\u017een\u00ed a\u00a0prirodzene si uzurpuj\u00fa pr\u00e1vo rozhodova\u0165 v\u00a0rodina na z\u00e1klade \u017eivite\u013eskej poz\u00edcie, ktor\u00fa nadobudli. A\u00a0s\u00fa \u017eeny, pre ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa tak\u00edto partneri atrakt\u00edvni, ktor\u00fdm tak\u00e9to prerozdelenie moci vyhovuje a\u00a0s\u00fa s\u00a0nimi spokojn\u00e9. Je to model, v\u00a0ktorom vyrastali na\u0161i rodi\u010dia a\u00a0ich rodi\u010dia. Nebolo by na \u0148om ni\u010d zl\u00e9, pokia\u013e by tak\u00e9to usporiadanie jedn\u00e9mu z\u00a0partnerov nevyhovovalo. A\u00a0tu niekde by som videla aj v\u00e1\u0161 probl\u00e9m. Predsa len, vz\u0165ah je vecou dohody a\u00a0kompromisu \u017ei\u0165 tak, ako to obom partnerom vyhovuje, nielen jedn\u00e9mu z\u00a0nich. Prirodzene potom doch\u00e1dza k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee jeden z\u00a0partnerov je spokojn\u00fd na \u00fakor druh\u00e9ho, ktor\u00fd sa m\u00f4\u017ee c\u00edti\u0165 nevypo\u010dut\u00fd, nepochopen\u00fd, ned\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd. Tieto pocity, ak o\u00a0nich s\u00a0partnerom nehovor\u00ed a\u00a0probl\u00e9m sa nerie\u0161i, sa m\u00f4\u017eu stup\u0148ova\u0165 a\u00a0kumulova\u0165 a\u017e po neznesite\u013en\u00fa hranicu, kedy m\u00f4\u017ee d\u00f4js\u0165 k\u00a0v\u00fdbuchu a\u00a0je u\u017e \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 rie\u0161i\u0165 situ\u00e1ciu kon\u0161trukt\u00edvne.<\/p>\n<p>Podobne je to u\u00a0v\u00e1s. Najrad\u0161ej by ste so v\u0161etk\u00fdm sekli. Prekvapuje ma v\u0161ak, \u017ee v\u00a0tejto situ\u00e1cii \u017eijete 20 rokov a\u00a0za cel\u00fd ten \u010das sa ni\u010d nezmenilo Tie\u017e p\u00ed\u0161ete, \u017ee s\u00a0man\u017eelom nepohnete. Je potom n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 prin\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 zmeny do tak zabehnut\u00e9ho syst\u00e9mu a\u00a0pokia\u013e zmena neprich\u00e1dza od partnera, ktor\u00e9mu zrejme situ\u00e1cia vyhovuje, mala by pr\u00eds\u0165 od v\u00e1s. Pokia\u013e t\u00fa\u017eite \u00eds\u0165 cel\u00fd \u017eivot k\u00a0moru, ale nikdy ste o\u00a0tom partnerovi nepovedala alebo nespravili ni\u010d preto, aby ste t\u00fa\u017ebu zrealizovali, ost\u00e1vate st\u00e1le na \u00farovni t\u00fa\u017eenia a\u00a0nedosiahnutia cie\u013ea, \u010do m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 frustruj\u00face. Neviem, \u010di ste sa s\u00a0man\u017eelom niekedy rozpr\u00e1vali o\u00a0tom, \u010do by ste si vy priali a\u00a0\u010do v\u00e1m na spolo\u010dnom tr\u00e1ven\u00ed dovolenky prek\u00e1\u017ea. Ak sa tak nestalo, odpor\u00fa\u010dala by som rozhovor o\u00a0tom, kto si ako predstavuje spolo\u010dne str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das a\u00a0kto rozhoduje o\u00a0jeho fin\u00e1lnej verzii. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 budovanie nie\u010doho spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho prin\u00e1\u0161a nezhody a\u00a0s\u00a0nimi nutne kompromisy, ke\u010f raz ust\u00fapi jeden, raz druh\u00fd. Ak ustupujete st\u00e1le vy man\u017eelov\u00fdch predstav\u00e1m, je na \u010dase navrhn\u00fa\u0165, aby raz ust\u00fapil aj on va\u0161im. Pokia\u013e man\u017eel pozn\u00e1 va\u0161e t\u00fa\u017eby aj v\u00fdhrady a\u00a0nesprav\u00ed ni\u010d smerom k\u00a0v\u00e1m, smerom ku kompromisu, bolo by nerealistick\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, \u017ee sa nie\u010do zmen\u00ed. Ost\u00e1va v\u00e1m zariadi\u0165 sa po svojom. M\u00f4\u017eete \u00eds\u0165 na vysn\u00edvan\u00fa dovolenku k\u00a0moru napr\u00edklad sama, pr\u00edpadne s\u00a0priate\u013ekami alebo de\u0165mi Str\u00e1vite pr\u00edjemn\u00fd \u010das, spln\u00edte si sen, man\u017eel si napln\u00ed svoje potreby tr\u00e1ven\u00edm dovolenky na hor\u00e1ch. Aj vlk bude s\u00fdty, aj ovca cel\u00e1. Je u\u017e len na v\u00e1s, ktor\u00fa mo\u017enos\u0165 si vyberiete.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toto leto p\u00f4jdeme zase na hory, tak ako to chce m\u00f4j man\u017eel. 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